Keep Light Alive

At Sunburst Memorials, we believe a memorial is more than a permanent way to honor a life—it’s a place to heal, connect, and share stories forever. 

It’s where memories rise to the surface through laughter, conversation, and quiet reflection. Whether you’re visiting on your own, gathering with others, or simply sitting with your thoughts, the simple act of remembering through shared activities can bring deep comfort and connection. 

After a loss, it’s not always easy to know how to move forward. But one of the most powerful ways to begin is to keep their light shining together. When we tell stories, explore old photos, or reflect on the joy a loved one brought into our lives, we keep their presence alive in meaningful, lasting ways. (And sometimes, these moments bring smiles when we need them most.) 

Here are some creative and heartfelt ways to do just that: 

The Memory Jar 
Leave out a jar with some colorful paper and pens and let friends and family jot down memories whenever something comes to mind—a funny story, a sweet moment, or just something that made them happy. At memorial visits or get-togethers, take turns reading them aloud. It’s a simple way to keep the memories alive in a collective way. 

Letters to Loved Ones 
Invite friends and family of all ages to write a letter to your loved one — maybe a little life update, “thank you,” or something they never got the chance to say. You can read them out loud at their memorial or just keep them tucked away. Either way, it’s a simple way to feel close and connected. 

Photo Story Circles 
Get a group together and pull out some favorite photos. Whether you stick to a theme—like holidays, funny moments, or everyday stuff—or just go with the flow, everyone can share what they remember. You’re sure to learn more about your loved one and see them through new eyes (maybe share a few laughs, too!) 

Anniversary Traditions 
Marking birthdays, anniversaries, or special holidays with meaningful rituals helps bring a sense of rhythm and connection after losing a loved one. Cook their favorite meal, visit a meaningful place, or do something they enjoyed. These traditions help us celebrate their life while finding comfort during meaningful times of the year.  

The Question Game 
Create prompts like: “What advice would they give right now?” or “What made them laugh uncontrollably?” Go around and share answers. These questions keep their personality in the conversation and often lead to surprising, heartfelt, or humorous memories. 

The Combined Scrapbook 
Invite everyone in your loved one’s circle to design a scrapbook page with photos, written stories, and drawings. When all the pages are brought together into one book, it becomes a deeply personal, collaborative keepsake. Perfect for all ages, it’s a unique and collaborative memento to bring alongside memorial gatherings or other get-togethers. 

These memory-sharing activities — especially when paired with a visit to a loved one’s memorial — can make those moments even more meaningful. 

At Sunburst Memorials, we help you create that space—one that reflects a life, invites connection, and brings comfort for years to come. Grief changes, but shared love and community after loss last forever. 

How do YOU connect with a loved one forever?  
If you have meaningful ways you reconnect with your loved ones, whether through memorial gatherings or simple everyday moments, we’d love to hear them!  

Share how you keep your loved one’s light shining to [email protected], and we’ll pass it along to others who need a little inspiration.