FAQ’s Your headstone and memorial questions, answered. From choosing the right headstone to understanding timelines and cost, find answers to the questions families ask most, before you’re ready to decide. What is the difference between a headstone and a grave marker?+ A headstone is an upright stone monument placed at the head of a grave. A grave marker is typically flat and set level with the ground. Both memorialize and identify the person buried there, but the right choice depends on the cemetery’s regulations, your family’s preferences, and the level of personalization you want. Some cemeteries only permit flat markers, so it’s worth confirming requirements before making any decisions. A memorial consultant can check those regulations for you. How do I choose the right headstone for a loved one?+ Start by checking with the cemetery about any restrictions on size, type, or material, since some only allow flat markers. From there, think about what would feel most meaningful to your family: the style, any symbols, artwork, or an inscription that reflects who your loved one was. You don’t need to have it figured out before your first conversation. A memorial consultant will walk you through every option, help you visualize the design before anything is finalized, and handle the coordination with the cemetery so you don’t have to. What should you write on a headstone?+ Most memorials include the person’s full name, birth and death dates, and a short inscription. Common choices are a meaningful quote, a line from a prayer or poem, a simple phrase like “Beloved Father” or “Forever in Our Hearts,” or a symbol that reflects their faith, passions, or personality. There is no single right way to create a memorial. If you’re not sure where to start, a memorial consultant can share what other families have chosen and help you find words that feel right, without pressure. Can you add photos or custom artwork to a memorial?+ Yes. Portraits, custom artwork, symbols, and personalized imagery can all be incorporated into a memorial. This is one of the most meaningful ways families choose to personalize a stone — a photograph preserved in porcelain, an engraving of a favorite landscape, a hobby, a symbol, or something that was uniquely theirs. Your memorial consultant will walk you through what’s possible and show you examples so you can make choices that feel right for your family. What are cemetery regulations, and why do they matter?+ Every cemetery operates by its own set of rules, often called monument regulations or memorial guidelines. These can restrict the size, material, style, or type of memorial allowed in a specific section. Some cemeteries only permit flat markers. Others have requirements around foundation type, granite color, or maximum height. These regulations apply to every memorial regardless of who placed the order. Ignoring them can result in delays, required modifications, or a memorial being rejected after it’s already been created. Sunburst handles all of this on your behalf. Your consultant verifies the cemetery’s requirements before anything is finalized, so there are no surprises. Do you handle the cemetery approval process?+ Yes. Sunburst coordinates directly with the cemetery on your behalf, including submitting the memorial design for approval and confirming it meets all applicable regulations. You don’t need to manage that communication yourself. We take care of it from design through installation. How long does it take to create and install a memorial?+ Typically, a headstone takes about 8 to 12 weeks to create once the design is finalized. More detailed or custom work can take a bit longer. If the granite is sourced from overseas, the timeline is longer — typically around 7 to 9 months — because of international shipping and production steps. We will let you know upfront if the stone you choose falls into that category. For in-stock granite, the process typically takes about three months. Domestic granite (sourced from U.S. quarries) generally runs around four months. International granite, from places like India, Norway, Canada, or Africa, can take up to seven months, since the stone must be quarried, shipped overseas, arrive at port, and be transported before fabrication can begin. After that, installation timing depends on the cemetery and the weather — especially in Michigan, where winter can delay setting foundations. We coordinate everything with the cemetery and keep you informed throughout the process. Does the memorial need to be in place before the funeral or burial?+ No. The burial can take place before the memorial is installed — and in most cases, it does. Because memorials take three to seven months depending on granite origin and design complexity, it’s common for families to hold services first and have the memorial placed afterward. The cemetery’s caretaker can prepare the burial site without the monument in place. Can we be present when the memorial is being placed?+ Families are not notified in advance of the installation date, as placement is scheduled and coordinated directly with the cemetery by our professional setting team. However, you will be notified as soon as the setting is confirmed complete, at which point you’re welcome to visit the site. Can you set up a memorial that was purchased elsewhere?+ No. For liability reasons, Sunburst installs only memorials we have fabricated. We are not able to set monuments from other manufacturers. Can we install the memorial ourselves?+ Most cemeteries require that a trained, insured professional handle all memorial placements, and we recommend following that guidance. If a cemetery permits self-installation and you choose to proceed, be aware that doing so voids the warranty on the memorial. Where does your granite come from?+ Sunburst sources granite from quarries around the world, including the United States, Canada, India, Norway, and Africa. Different quarries produce different colors, textures, and characteristics, which is part of what makes each memorial distinct. When a specific granite is no longer available (some quarries have closed over the years), our experience allows us to identify the closest match so your memorial maintains the look your family envisioned. Do I need to visit your location in person?+ No. While we always enjoy meeting families face-to-face, an in-person visit is not required. We work with families by phone, email, and text throughout the entire process. Design proofs are shared electronically, revisions can be reviewed remotely, and signatures are completed digitally. We regularly assist families from out of town, out of state, and occasionally from outside the country, with the same level of care and attention at every step. Do you offer accessories for memorials?+ Yes. Sunburst offers a range of accessories to complement and personalize both new and existing memorials, including granite and aluminum flower vases, canister-style vases, bronze accessories, porcelain photographs, and memorial coins. Your consultant can walk you through what’s available and help you find options that fit your family’s vision. What other services does Sunburst offer?+ In addition to headstones and grave markers, Sunburst creates a wide range of memorial and recognition products: veteran memorials, bronze markers, columbariums, statues, mausoleums, pet markers, benches, garden stones, business signage, and memorial coins. We also provide releveling and repair services and professional cleaning for existing memorials. If you have a specific need, ask your consultant; there’s a good chance we can help. We already had the cremation done. Is it too late to get a memorial?+ No. The memorial conversation does not end with the cremation. Cremation is how the body is cared for. A memorial is how the person is remembered. These are separate decisions, and many families come to us after cremation is complete, sometimes weeks or even months later. Cremated remains can be: Buried in a cemetery plot and marked with an upright monument or flat marker Placed in a columbarium niche with a bronze plaque Honored with a garden stone, bench, or memorial marker with no burial plot required A consultant can walk you through what is possible. You may have more options than you think. What options are available for cremation memorials?+ More options exist than most families expect. Here is what is available for cremation families: Upright monuments or flat markers placed over buried cremated remains in a cemetery plot Garden stones and benches with no burial required, can be placed in a memorial garden or personal space Columbarium niches which are above-ground structures that hold cremation urns, often at a cemetery or chapel, marked with a bronze plaque Portrait stones and custom engraved artwork that are just as personalized as a traditional headstone If you are not sure what fits, a consultant can help you sort through the options. Can you plan and purchase a headstone in advance?+ Yes, and many families find it’s one of the most meaningful things they can do for the people they love. Pre-planning a memorial allows both spouses to have a say in the design and locks in today’s pricing against future increases. It removes a significant decision from your family’s plate during an already difficult time. To plan a memorial in advance, you meet with a consultant, design the memorial together, and finalize the details at your own pace. Nothing has to be rushed. How much does a headstone cost?+ Headstone pricing varies based on the type of stone, size, granite origin, and the level of customization. A simple flat marker will cost less than a fully custom upright monument with engraved artwork or a portrait. Because most memorials are designed specifically for each family, pricing is typically provided as a custom quote after your consultation. What’s included matters as much as the number. At Sunburst, all engraving and front artwork are included in the price, and your consultant will be upfront about what’s covered so there are no surprises. What materials are available, and which last the longest?+ Granite is the longest-lasting and most durable material. It resists weather, fading, and cracking better than any other stone. Bronze is also very long-lasting, especially when maintained, but granite requires the least upkeep over time. Do you offer payment plans?+ No, but the cost can be broken into two payments. A deposit is required to begin production, and the remaining balance is due when the memorial is set in the cemetery. Can a headstone be updated after it is installed?+ Yes. Most headstones — especially granite ones — can be updated after installation. Common updates include adding a date of passing, adding a second name on a companion stone, or adding an inscription. We bring the engraving equipment to the cemetery or, in some cases, bring the stone back to the shop. Either way, we make sure the new lettering matches the original size, depth, and style. How long will the engraving last?+ The engraving is cut directly into the granite, so it lasts for generations. It will not fade or disappear. Over many years, weather can gently soften the edges, but the lettering remains clear and readable. Granite is one of the most durable materials available, which is why it is the standard for long-lasting memorials. Still have questions? Our team is easy to reach, and there’s no pressure to decide anything right away. Whether you’re just starting to think through your options or you’re ready to take next steps, we’re here. Start the Conversation